Feb. 19, 2024

327: A Story of Service, Strategy, & Success w/ Randy St. John CCM, CCE

Catch our talk with Randy St John, GM/COO of the Tuxedo Club, as he shares insights from his journey in hospitality, from nearly selling cars to leading one of the top clubs. He highlights the importance of treating staff well and how it boosts member satisfaction. We'll cover:

  • Tackling the pandemic at the Tuxedo Club, including creative solutions like a youth camp and expanding racquet sports.
  • Balancing the club's history with modern updates, like adding electric car chargers.
  • Leadership strategies, including being transparent in decision-making and managing club and board challenges.

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00:00 - Club Radio With Randy St John

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18:37 - Balancing Innovation With Club History

27:00 - Innovative Renovations at Historic Club

32:42 - Leadership, Transparency, and Career Decisions

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In this episode we are chatting with Randy St John.

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He's a friend of ours, gmcoo of the Tuxedo Club in New York, and some of the topics, some of the things that we go over, some of my takeaways from this episode is really just about being a good human being, being a good person we talk a lot about take care of your employees and the employees are going to take care of the members and just creates this really nice rhythm we talk about.

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One of my favorite things to talk ask is how do you balance history and innovation.

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How do you balance those two things in the club world?

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He has a very rich history.

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So private club radio listeners, let's welcome to the show from the Tuxedo Club in Tuxedo Park, new York.

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Let's welcome Randy St John.

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Now you know what my team goes through with all my BS stories.

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No, these are great stories.

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So I was going to ask, like what was the beginning?

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So I didn't realize Air Mark has been around for that long.

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Actually my wife worked for Air Mark.

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I had it wrong.

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I actually worked for canteen right out of college and I had a you know it was a chef manager job.

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It was, you know, okay, whatever, right, it was decent money and all that for at our school.

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It was a little boring, you know, and I didn't love it and my boss was, you know, was not a good guy.

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And so I was literally this close to starting to sell cars at a Nissan dealership and my mother-in-law, of all people, sees an ad in the paper back when people used to find jobs and newspapers right, that this club outside of Boston was looking for a part-time Maider D and she said, well, that wouldn't that be better?

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And I said, well, go check it out.

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So I go, I apply for this job, and manager has me and interviews me and you know she's going through the whole thing and she said, listen, she goes, I'll hire you for this job.

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She said, but one of my assistants just gave notice he's leaving as of Labor Day and I think you'd be great for one of my young assistant managers running our you know, grill room, patio by the pool, you know, for those diners big Jewish club outside of Boston.

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I said sure.

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So instead of selling cars I went and you know, went to a place where we used to do some some weekends.

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We literally a normal weekend was six weddings, a bad weekend was only three weddings, okay, and a kick and butt weekend was eight weddings.

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We had two ballrooms, one seat, one seated well, like 775 or something, with a dance floor, the other one was like 250, with a dance floor.

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We would do two weddings on Saturday, 12 to five, and then two more, seven to 12.

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On Sunday we would be more flexible.

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You'd sell like a two or three o'clock one on Sunday, because sometimes you'd only get one.

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There were probably a half dozen times in three seasons there where we did eight weddings in a weekend and I was the members guy.

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I like I took care of the 19th hole in the grill room and the members and but when you're doing eight weddings you know all hands on deck.

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So that was when I was young and slim and wore a smaller tuxedo.

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The fact that you wore a tuxedo to work definitely dates you a tiny bit, but Well, you know it was, it was, they were early, they were late 80s weddings, so yeah, it was lots of taffeta and bows and you know, thankfully, no ruffle chairs, so I forgot that you grew up in the New England area.

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Are you picking up the action?

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Is that what it is?

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No, you said New England, outside of Boston.

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I went to school there for a few years and then crappy school, bay State College.

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But I was going to school around here, you know, 10 minutes from my house.

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But I had some friends in New England and they had an entertainment management program that actually had some really cool teachers like the instructors or like former tour managers and all that stuff.

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So I was like I got nothing to lose.

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And the school like doesn't you know, there's no real campus because it's back bay of Boston.

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So like the, our classrooms were in like the brownstones.

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It was so random Like our dorm.

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Yeah, I think I gave a guest lecture one of their classes one time, and how you say that a friend of ours from college was teaching in their hospitality program and she said I'll come talk about clubs one day.

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I forgot about that.

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I think that was.

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I think that was Bay State.

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She was at that point.

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Yep, Yep, that's so funny.

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So, so yeah, so the.

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So yeah.

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I have a special place in my heart for for New England.

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Yeah, it's a cleaner, nicer, more walkable New York city.

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That's kind of how I see Boston.

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Yeah, yeah, new York.

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It's funny, you know you had to be a certain age and you've seen the cities go up and down and change.

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You have a gross time square in the eighties and then I remember really nice time square.

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You know, one of the things that Giuliani did that wasn't crazy probably was cleaning up New York and then and now it's kind of New York is kind of dirty again, to be honest with you.

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But a lot of cities have gotten dirty or again, which is kind of sad.

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You know it's not the only one.

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So Speaking of dirty, how clean are your club vents?

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Sorry, no, that was a, that was an inside joke to some of the listeners.

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I have this thing of like.

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I cannot stand dirty vents.

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Like when you walk into like a place and you look up and just the vents are it just like irks my soul.

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So and I come from like a family business background, that's like janitorial supplies, like facility maintenance, so it's like one of the I think from like years of also just like walking into buildings when I would like work for them and either have to like clean it or if I was doing like sales and like looking up to count how many vents.

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But I just know it takes like a little like a vacuum hatch to go up and clean it and there's.

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I did a whole episode on it quick on private club radio because I did a show at a club.

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Then it wasn't even for a club show, it was a corporate gig, so it was outside group.

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You know guy was a member brought me in in like the main bathroom where, like all guests, everybody comes like it was just disgusting.

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I was just like to me it's like little things like.

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When you think of like a private club I think of like a nice, well maintained place.

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So I don't, I don't think about, I don't look at air vents minus smell.

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I can't stand dirty mop smell.

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My wife and I was blocked out of restaurants because all you can smell is dirty mop.

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Drives me nuts.

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Yep, nose blindness, I did.

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I did one on that too, because I've walked into I can't tell you how many club shows I've done and sometimes you walk in, you're like, and like you, almost like, look like no one else, like I'm the only one who smells this, like nobody oh nothing, I just think it's disgusting, so yeah yeah, so, speaking of nose blindness, when you're at Maribel, how do you know?

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so I'll be honest, I've only got an NDA with one job I ever had.

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So what do you want to know about Maribel?

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No, I don't know, because you know I was, I was, I was doing a little bit of research and you, you got them to capacity, you got them to fill their membership and you're only there for two years.

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Well, you know it's funny.

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I got there, it was, I think they had been, I think I would say year four after they had turned over from the developers, you know, and the problem with Maribel was it's a great property but the timing of you know, the late 2008-9-10 range, real estate was slowing down.

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Discovery, happily, was was happy to get out.

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I can't remember the building company who did the build out.

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They were happy to get out.

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The members were happy to take over because they got it for less than they would have paid if they'd been in capacity.

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The downside to that is now the members have to float the subsidy.

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That you know.

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Discovery didn't care if they lost money because they were selling these.

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You know gorgeous, you know monstrous, expensive homes and now all of a sudden we're 50 members light and they're trying to get to, you know, break even not necessarily profitability, but certainly break even.

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And so we did that in the first two years.

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But a lot of the hard work was done before I got there, in fairness, and then you know we just did.

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We really ramped up some of our national campaigns, you know being for profit.

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We could advertise in a different way, you know, through some of the you know different golf journals that are specific or local, particularly to let's call what it is.

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You know Calgary and Western Canada money and you know the Midwest, you know Chicago, minneapolis market and it was.

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It wasn't a hard sell.

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I brought in a great membership director.

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My membership director came with me about six months after I did from LA and she did an amazing job.

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And when she transitioned with her operations background to my my clubhouse manager, the woman we hired then to replace her as membership, she, she finished the job and really closed it out in her first year there.

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So but I had great team.

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You know I've always said, you know I am, I'm very lucky.

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I usually work with really great people.

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So from from your whole, you know, journey so far, how?

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How has your leadership changed?

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Or maybe your leadership style, if if any like?

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Have you had like the same approach the entire time?

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Uh could so.

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I have to filter my F bomb.

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Play more now.

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So that's start.

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Start with that.

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It isn't 1993 anymore.

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I can't just f bomb all over you.

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I mean you can or just make my editing job so difficult.

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No, because you know I I'm, I always am.

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I don't want to say fascinated is the right word, but when you know people will travel long and far for like other staff members, like in in the club world, so that was just like a little like you know.

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It's like you know you must have a decent style of leadership.

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So I'm just trying to see like that, just kind of triggered, so you know, how do you lead, what's what your style?

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you know, you know honestly it was so I was very lucky I.

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I started as the.

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They hired me as the club manager at Aguam in 1991.

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It was actually my first day work, was my 26th birthday.

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So I'll even tell you how old I am.

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It was my 26th birthday was my first day works the club manager and it was typical old New England club, you know, kind of a strange club in some ways but was suited me.

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I knew a lot of the members because they were a lot of the members were also members at the city club I worked at in Providence during college and then they also some of my members and some of my board members.

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I caddies for their fathers and uncles and parents at High Ennisport when I was a kid.

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So I knew the whole Yankee, I knew the whole vibe.

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So I'm young.

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But they hired me and they took a chance on me and you know and it was all good and then three years into it our golf pro after 30 something years, retired, and that's when they made me the general manager at 29 or 30 years old, whatever it worked out to be.

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And you know, one of the things I figured out after the first three, four years there was, and you know, part of it was building relationships with a tennis pro and a golf pro and a superintendent who had all been there 25 to 30 years.

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When I got there.

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They were all great.

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We had a great relationship, particularly with golf pro, and I and you always play a lot of golf in the morning because we weren't busy and I had time then before my son was born and you know dogs.

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But but you know, one of the things I figured out at that point in my career was that if I took good care of my employees and my coworkers, they would take good care of the members and in turn, to close the circle, the members wouldn't bother me with a whole bunch of nonsense, you know.

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So you know Richard Branson gets all the credit for it.

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He's absolutely right.

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You know you take care of your employees and you know however he phrases it.

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But a lot of us figured that out, I think, in the mid-90s, a lot of the GMs that have been around a while of my era.

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And that, I think, was the first big transition, because, instead of making people work for you, you realize that you wanted them working with you.

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And you know we talk about leading from the front and setting the example and all those other great terms.

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But you know, all of our styles are a little different.

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But I like to think that my most important employees, or the ones that I'm closest to I mean I still talk to employees of mine every couple of months from 20 or 30 years ago is that they knew that I would run through a wall form and protect them when they were given their best and, as a result, I get their best.

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And it doesn't work with every case.

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I've had some employees in the department heads over the years that we didn't all mesh and sometimes I made a change and sometimes they made a change.

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But you know, I think it's about trying to understand people and know people at a deeper level, and a lot of us emotionally intelligent GMs or leaders or managers figured it out at a young age and some people still haven't figured it out, and that's okay.

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It's what makes the world go around.

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But that was the differentiator for me is figuring out that if I took care of these people, the members were happy and then the members took care of me because they were happy Worked out pretty good.

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For the most part, I've been pretty lucky.

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And you've been at Tuxedo Club now since 2000,.

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Was it 17?

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2018.

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I came in July 2018.

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So this will actually this was just my sixth summer, sixth season.

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We're going into our seventh season.

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You know, covid was an adventure, but this club we were able, we were one of the clubs that actually thrived because, being in a not necessarily a gated community that's tied to the park, but in a gated community that the village of Tuxedo Park is, there was a great outflow of Manhattan to people coming up here to what had been their weekend in summer houses being up here full time.

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So I mean, we thrived in terms of operationally, with what we could do based on the restrictions of the moment and you know it also allowed us to.

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From my end, as a manager, I got rid of some crazy institutionalized behaviors of being open too much in certain areas.

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And because this is a big club, you know, I've got a golf house, golf clubhouse that's five and a half miles from the main clubhouse.

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So we're in the summer, I've got a golf clubhouse running like every other normal club that's a golf club, right.

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And then I've got this other campus where I've got the boat house, a tennis house and a main clubhouse.

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I forgot about that.

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Plus, I got a few hotel rooms, not many, but a few hotel rooms.

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We used to have our own camp.

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We've now partnered with the local independent school and they have their own camp and we act as their vendor for the sporting and the lake events and the pool, which is great.

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So it's no longer under my umbrella, my members just have access to it, which is awesome.

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I kind of that was one of my more, I was one of my more genius moves getting the school to take over the camp for me.

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They're probably still mad at me.

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Ooh, let's, let's, let's go to that.

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So explain what, what that is and how that came about.

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So you guys had your own camp.

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So we had our own four day, you know, youth programs, golf, and we have five, really six racquet sports.

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If you count pickleball right now, we're probably going to have seven soon with Padel, you know.

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So we have a lot of racquets in the summer and youth programs we obviously have the golf, we have the pool and the swimming and group lessons and private lessons and then, you know, we do every Thursday night in the summer we do fun kids nights, you know, with petting, zoos or crazy science guys or crafts or whatever it might be.

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And the school wanted to do more with camp and I said, well, why don't you guys do the camp?

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You have that expertise and we'll be your vendor.

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I've got the expertise of great sports professionals and so we help a little bit with the transportation, you know, and so on.

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But I got out from under what was at best break even and actually cost a club a little money every year to do this four day a week camp for eight or nine weeks.

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And now my members get a better camp.

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That's five days a week and all day instead of half day, and I have one or a much smaller.

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Not that it was a big headache, truthfully, but I have one last thing that the club's liability or responsibility.

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So I, I, I saw the opportunity.

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I tell, I tell my young managers all the time you can't miss opportunities.

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And I was having a conversation with one of my members who works at the school and I took it.

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I took the opportunity.

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I was not, I was not going to miss that opportunity.

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In worst case, if it didn't work, what you may have maybe upset one or two people or the people, what you would have ruffled a few feathers and they would have forgot about a few weeks later and it would have been fine, like it's not a big deal.

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I do that walk and pass the driving range, come on.

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So, if I remember correctly, tuxedo club is, is, has um.

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Is it more of a historic club, right?

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It's actually one of the oldest clubs in the country, 1886.

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Um it, you know it's.

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It's got a lot of history.

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Um, not all of it very well known.

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They, they liked being under the radar for years.

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The club actually was founded by a gentleman named Pierre Laurelard and he was a tobacco baron you know the gilded age right Tobacco baron and he actually got tired of the whole new port scene and going to new port from Manhattan or wherever he was coming in it.

00:18:07.984 --> 00:18:09.451
Just, he didn't want to do it anymore.

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He sold his house and it's one of the ones I have to look, I should remember after all these years.

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It's one of the ones on Bellevue have that you can take a tour of, or Belvedere, whatever.

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It is Bellevue in new port, like the breakers or Marvel Well, I can't remember which.

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One sold it to the Vanderbilt or somebody and he said I'm going to create this community, you know, an hour north of Manhattan, well, an hour today, who knows what then.

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But then they, um, they came up by train and they saw this land and they made it into a private.

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It was, as we're, as we understand it, the first private gated community in the country and it was going to be a hunting and lodge type escape.

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For you know, manhattanites, and you know, but if you think of the time in 1886, 1890s, golf has started and really started to take off, and so they first had a six hole golf course up where the actually where the school is now a different part of the park golf's taking off.

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So then they have, they created a nine hole course and that turned into 18 holes, and that course was in play until 1952, 1953.

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That was a good one, yeah, the state took the land by eminent domain because that's where they put the throughway to go from Manhattan up to Albany.

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The New York state throughway goes right through um, the original tuxedo golf course, and so Robert Trent Jones was brought in in the fifties and we opened our current golf course in 1953, which is on the um.

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It was the JP Morgan Alexander Hamilton.

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At some point the family's had a marriage slash, merger, and it was Hamilton farms area where the golf course is today.

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So so a lot of history.

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And you know one of the, you know our, actually our.

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We were the first interclub golf match in the country ourselves, shinnecox, st Andrews, and the country club in Brookline.

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It was called the 1890s, so we it carried on again and it actually just ended recently.

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It was called the 1894 matches.

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The original trophy was donated by the club.

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That is the us senior open trophy for the usga is the original 1894 trophy.

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Get out, yeah, and the the.

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The story and I don't know if I believe this one, this is one of the rumors is that tuxedo would have been one of the original usga clubs, but the representative from tuxedo was too busy and didn't feel like going to the meeting which, if you know, our club and we have a great membership, but it's a little bit under the radar, you know, and they kind of like that the quirkiness of it.

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You hear that story and like, well, that's just come on, that's just the urban myth, right, urban legend, but there's probably some truth in it.

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So I think we I never remember we were like 10, 11 or 12.

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We weren't.

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We were definitely one of the first 12 usga clubs.

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So there's a lot of history and as much history as there is with the golf.

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We have even more of a racket history, because we're the only club in the country that has the six racket sports that we have and, as I said, soon to be seven with Padel, because we have court tennis or real tennis, show the palm.

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We have rackets, we have squash, we have lawn tennis, which is on Hartree courts, and we have the pickleball and then we have paddle platform tennis and then we'll be adding the patelle.

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How many?

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ankles are broken a week at your club.

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Not many, but the corp tennis, you know it's funny for so I'm looking at, you know, I'm looking at my wife and I want to come back East and I'm looking at jobs and things.

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And one of the things that attracted me here was the history, because you know, 30 something years in this career to come to a club that had a couple of sports and court tennis and rackets that I didn't even know about.

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And we just say, two years ago now we had the men's US open for court tennis.

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This year we're having the women.

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Actually, it's fascinating, you know, it's like a whole new sport and it's basically almost all other racket sports are derived from this court tennis or rackets.

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They all evolved from that.

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So you can go on the website afterwards and check it out, but it is there's, we are.

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I think there's 12 courts in the United States now, 53 or 54 worldwide for court tennis and we're the only one that has the rackets, the court tennis plus all the other stuff.

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So it's we're about to do this next.

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Well, two weeks from now, we do.

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It's our big tournament.

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We do two big rackets tournaments a year.

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One of them is called Gold Rackets.

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It's always in February.

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This year will be the 120th playing of Gold Rackets.

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The court opened in 1900, tied into the World's Fair in conjunction with the World's Fair, so it's very historic.

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All three of our clubhouses tennis, maine and golf are very historic.

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Even our golf clubhouse it's only 25 years old is a Hart-Howerton clubhouse Beautiful shingle style clubhouse and we've got this Tudor Gilded Age mansion for the main club and this French architect that did the tennis house with the basements Really cool.

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It's like going to, it's like being a fandom of the opera, because it's all these brick arches that hold up the cement court.

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Tennis court.

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You want to talk about spooky.

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The only building we don't have ghosts in actually is the golf clubhouse.

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The rest of them all have ghosts in them too, so it's very exciting.

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That.

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Ok, we're coming back to that at some other point.

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We're going to like talking like October, we're going to do Ghost Hunters Private Club Radio Edition at the Tuxedo Club, what so?

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If my research will do hand held.

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We'll do Blair Witch.

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So do handheld.

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It will be very exciting.

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We have one of the staff, we have one basement.

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We have one bathroom in the in the lower level or basement of the club, where the Bill and yours room used to be, and we're looking at some renovations down there.

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Actually, right now we all joke that's the Moaning Myrtle bathroom.

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This is classic 1920s, beautiful marble and beautiful old tile bathrooms like the Moaning Myrtle bathroom.

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No to riot, yeah, that's funny.

00:23:53.069 --> 00:24:01.644
Huh, what if you can like monetize or not monetize on that, but like do something fun with that around the hall around Halloween, or like a little bit of crazy, crazy, it's going to like.

00:24:01.644 --> 00:24:11.390
So I was going to ask, with a club that has such history, and how do you like, how do you balance?

00:24:11.390 --> 00:24:20.549
I hate because innovations like the like you know the hot buzzword now Like, how do you balance innovation with history?

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You know, because that, because you mentioned to like, the club likes to be a little bit more on the, you know, low, low key side also.

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But how have you and the club kind of made that balance?

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You know, I, you know I think we mostly get it right.

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You know we've tried to a good example.

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It's just simply dress coach right, and COVID was.

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That was a place where we were able to move the needle a little bit because, you know, while the club lends itself to a very, almost like an old city club, very rarefied, and you expect to see men in jackets and your ties still and things, and you know there's a place for that.

00:24:54.390 --> 00:25:00.106
But our member has changed as well, you know, and has changed a little more quickly than normal.

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A lot of due to COVID.

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We had a lot of turnover in real estate in the park, a lot of younger families and couples coming out of Brooklyn in the city that wanted to not be in the city anymore, you know, for whatever the reasons were at the time.

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So that was one way of it, you know.

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But I'll give you the other side right.

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So we're looking at doing these renovations in our basement area where we have a working wine cellar that we use for events but it needs some love, these moaning myrtle bathrooms and then an old billiard's room and stuff.

00:25:25.895 --> 00:25:34.546
And you know we're not such a high volume club and busy that we're going to staff that you know all day long, or every day, with someone down there just in case you come in.

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But they said, well, how are we going to get a drink?

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And I said we're going to go old school, I'm going all the way back to the old days and we're going to have buzzers on the wall so you can have a buzzer and someone come down, take your drink order.

00:25:44.545 --> 00:25:54.313
So to me, right on one side, we want to be this modern club and I'm very conscious of the budgets, especially with all these multiple outlets operating at the same time that none of them are maxed out.

00:25:54.313 --> 00:25:55.660
Well, how do we get a drink?

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And I said we're going to go old school, 1920s, and you're going to hit the buzzer on the wall.

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That's cool, yeah, so you know.

00:26:01.390 --> 00:26:06.365
So like so you say innovation, but sometimes innovation is going back to something that you know that fits today.

00:26:07.796 --> 00:26:10.003
And it's neat that they're allowing that.

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I like allowing that, that, that fun, that innovation.

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Yeah, well, you know, I mean even our boat house.

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It's interesting.

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So the, the Tuxedo Lake, is also part of the reservoir system for the village.

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So our lake that we have the boat house on, there's a lot of restrictions, one of them being there's no engines, no gas, oil or greases on the lake, so everything is.

00:26:32.645 --> 00:26:41.748
We have a couple of pontoon boats and boats that we rent for people to take out for like party boats or even fishing on the lake, because the lake is stocked, it's great fishing, like.

00:26:41.748 --> 00:26:47.749
Those are all electric boats, but yet we we needed to rent it.

00:26:47.749 --> 00:26:48.451
These boats they were.

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They were pretty hammered right, they needed some love.

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So we renovated them a couple years ago instead of buying new because new, forgetting the fact that new costs more money.

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New look new, right.

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So here we have this 140 year old, 138 year old club.

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We wanted to, we want things to feel like they were always here.

00:27:05.411 --> 00:27:09.605
So we took our old pontoon boats and it was actually a couple of members, kids.

00:27:09.605 --> 00:27:20.333
They started a business doing this for other members and normally, you know, we don't do business with members, but this was one of those exceptions, these two, you know, teenage, you know, I think, ones in college ones.

00:27:20.333 --> 00:27:33.605
Like it was a senior in high school, they stripped these down to the frames and renovated them and with the skin we put on them, you know our colors are green and gold and like kind of a color these boats look like they were always here, you know.

00:27:33.605 --> 00:27:35.872
So sometimes we go backwards to go forwards.

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I don't know if that answers your innovation question, but you know it's.

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We're very.

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Every time we do something here, you know we've had to pay a couple of the parking lots.

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It's just again.

00:27:45.624 --> 00:27:50.602
They just needed love and when we did that, you know we did a.

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After we were done, we did tire and chip so that they very quickly looked like they had always been there.

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You know a nice Belgian block detail.

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And the funniest was when I went to the, I had to go to the town or the village.

00:28:02.211 --> 00:28:08.476
We had to get approval on this and that, and they have a very strong board of architecture review and so they approved everything.

00:28:08.476 --> 00:28:11.865
They like the design, they like that we weren't taking down too many trees, right.

00:28:11.865 --> 00:28:14.078
And he said well, we have one small request.

00:28:14.078 --> 00:28:16.505
Could you paint the?

00:28:16.505 --> 00:28:21.329
Could you paint the lines a different color instead of that, like really bright yellow or white.

00:28:21.329 --> 00:28:24.339
Could you do like a green, like the club green, for the parking lines?

00:28:24.339 --> 00:28:27.277
I said that's the easiest question I've had, anything you want.

00:28:27.277 --> 00:28:31.688
So we have hunter green parking lot lines instead of yellow or white.

00:28:31.688 --> 00:28:32.881
But you know what?

00:28:32.881 --> 00:28:34.631
It's very subtle and I think that goes again.

00:28:34.631 --> 00:28:37.421
So like we go backwards to go forward sometimes kind of cool.

00:28:39.246 --> 00:28:41.392
And that was from the city architects.

00:28:41.814 --> 00:28:42.034
The city.

00:28:42.034 --> 00:28:45.549
You know the board of architecture people that live in the village.

00:28:45.549 --> 00:28:49.749
It's like a five person panel and I'm like if that's all you want, that is the easiest.

00:28:49.749 --> 00:28:52.623
Yes, I got all day If that's all you want like that's like the.

00:28:52.743 --> 00:28:54.333
I think that was probably one of the best ideas.

00:28:54.333 --> 00:28:55.800
That's so cool, Great idea.

00:28:56.122 --> 00:29:02.513
And it's subtle, and so when that was in our tennis building parking lot, so this past year we did our main clubhouse parking lot and that do a bunch of work there.

00:29:02.513 --> 00:29:17.227
So on one side we have this subtlety of you know, green lines that kind of melt away and it looks very natural, and yet we've got two electric chargers for people to charge a complimentary electric charging when they're here at the club, or for their guests or our hotel guests.

00:29:19.538 --> 00:29:20.019
That's neat.

00:29:20.019 --> 00:29:29.599
No, that answers the question perfectly, and because I like to leave it open to interpretation, also because everybody's you know idea of innovation and things are different.

00:29:29.599 --> 00:29:31.325
I think just for me it was.

00:29:31.325 --> 00:29:34.213
You know it's one of the oldest clubs, it's massive, you know.

00:29:34.213 --> 00:29:43.055
So sometimes it's hard to, you know, bring in new and do new, and it sounds like things get accomplished fairly quickly at your club as well.

00:29:43.520 --> 00:29:44.836
I wouldn't go that far Okay.

00:29:44.991 --> 00:29:47.479
Well, I am going to edit that part out.

00:29:48.920 --> 00:29:51.347
No, you know what it depends on quickly, right?

00:29:51.347 --> 00:29:57.663
I mean I guess that's a subjective term Some things do, some things take longer, I think it's.

00:29:57.663 --> 00:29:59.588
I think it's a little quicker than it used to be.

00:30:01.535 --> 00:30:04.882
Or I guess, maybe my view.

00:30:04.882 --> 00:30:08.730
From my view it was almost like maybe you've earned.

00:30:08.730 --> 00:30:13.527
You've earned the right to make choices and they respect.

00:30:13.527 --> 00:30:23.203
It sounds like they respect most of them and obviously some need more time and things than others, but it sounds like you've gotten to a good place with you and the club and everybody there, to where it's.

00:30:23.635 --> 00:30:30.503
I think we mostly trust each other most of the time, you know, I mean not, and part of that is, I think, of maturity in this business.

00:30:30.503 --> 00:30:33.998
You know, you get to a point where you realize that you're never going to make everybody happy.

00:30:33.998 --> 00:30:38.567
And you know, I've preached for years.

00:30:38.567 --> 00:30:47.766
I always this is my mantra we're going to do the best answer for the greatest number of people, knowing that we're going to make some people unhappy, but we're going to do the best answer for the greatest number of people.

00:30:47.766 --> 00:30:55.301
And you know, sometimes that's about employee decisions and sometimes that's about, you know, facilities or programs for the members or whatever it is.

00:30:55.301 --> 00:31:15.275
But you know, and I think doing that and one of the things you know you talk about differences and things you know, figuring out leadership style 20 years ago, 25 years ago, right, more than that, god that makes me sick Is that you know, in the old days, right, everything was like on a need to know basis.

00:31:15.415 --> 00:31:17.990
You didn't have to, you didn't need to know what happened in the boardroom.

00:31:17.990 --> 00:31:18.554
It was old.

00:31:18.554 --> 00:31:23.748
You know, little black ball in the box and all this nonsense, right, and there was a time and a place for that.

00:31:23.748 --> 00:31:33.819
But I think that the successful leaders and managers and successful clubs have gone 180 degrees with transparency.

00:31:33.819 --> 00:31:36.894
You know, and I always tell people I'll answer any question I can answer.

00:31:36.894 --> 00:31:38.579
If I can't answer it, there's a really good reason.

00:31:38.579 --> 00:31:39.924
But I'll tell you anything you want to know.

00:31:40.336 --> 00:31:42.449
You know, people ask me about the finances of the club.

00:31:42.449 --> 00:31:43.454
I'll tell them wherever they want to know.

00:31:43.454 --> 00:31:43.996
I don't care.

00:31:44.538 --> 00:31:45.138
Numbers and numbers.

00:31:45.138 --> 00:31:46.301
They don't lie right.

00:31:46.343 --> 00:32:13.656
So you know, I mean, if it comes to personnel things, I had a situation once in my career where I had to terminate a really bad employee, some really bad behaviors that, unchecked, could have been disastrous for the club okay, and I terminated this employee and very few of the members understood why, but it was a personnel decision and so I didn't care that they didn't understand why.

00:32:13.656 --> 00:32:15.772
It wasn't comfortable.

00:32:15.772 --> 00:32:20.400
You know, not everybody loves it, but that I can't be transparent on that right.

00:32:20.400 --> 00:32:24.355
But if you ask you know about anything, what number?

00:32:24.355 --> 00:32:24.856
What do I care?

00:32:25.470 --> 00:32:25.790
It's your club.

00:32:25.790 --> 00:32:29.115
I'll tell you whatever you wanna know hey you can look it up yourself now.

00:32:29.970 --> 00:32:31.355
Hey, listen, and that's the other side, right?

00:32:31.355 --> 00:32:34.816
Remember the old days when everybody pretended they made this and do this and know that.

00:32:34.816 --> 00:32:40.078
If anybody doesn't know how to go online now and figure out and read another club's 990 form, shame on you.

00:32:40.078 --> 00:32:41.674
There's no secrecy anymore, guys.

00:32:41.674 --> 00:32:45.673
You know, and if you know how to do accounting, you can figure some stuff out.

00:32:47.372 --> 00:32:50.560
Was it your family's diner, or did you start a diner, or did you buy a?

00:32:50.601 --> 00:32:50.801
diner.

00:32:50.801 --> 00:32:54.857
No, actually it was built in the I forget what year, in the 50s in New Jersey.

00:32:54.857 --> 00:32:55.855
It was a mountain view.

00:32:55.855 --> 00:32:59.313
It was what I learned in number 47 or whatever it was, I don't remember anymore.

00:33:00.069 --> 00:33:07.155
And you know, honestly, I'd been at Aguam 11, almost 12 years at that point and the board was going sideways.

00:33:07.155 --> 00:33:12.240
The guy who came on as president was one of these.

00:33:12.240 --> 00:33:21.756
The members should be running the club After, you know, eight plus years of a GM and the club being more financially solvent and successful than it had been in decades.

00:33:21.756 --> 00:33:38.757
But okay, and you know it was funny he became president at the annual meeting and he pulled me aside to talk and he said and I want to let you know, we're going to make some changes starting today and from now on, in the board meeting, you're going to come in and give you a report and then you're going to leave because there's too many things you shouldn't be involved in.

00:33:38.757 --> 00:33:41.717
And I said, oh, okay, that sounds great, peter, thank you.

00:33:41.717 --> 00:33:45.413
And then I went home and told my wife and I said, well, it's no longer.

00:33:45.413 --> 00:33:46.597
If now, it's when.

00:33:46.597 --> 00:33:47.753
So just be prepared.

00:33:49.452 --> 00:33:53.117
And so I started thinking about what I would do and there wasn't a job I loved in New England.

00:33:53.117 --> 00:33:59.631
I'd had some opportunities that I chose not to interview for or pursue whatever because I was happy, you know.

00:33:59.631 --> 00:34:02.876
I mean it was a great job and you know the members were great and I had a great team.

00:34:02.876 --> 00:34:11.840
But that started the clock ticking and we were looking at business opportunities and I called a broker about one that was advertised poorly.

00:34:11.840 --> 00:34:12.974
It really wasn't what they said.

00:34:12.974 --> 00:34:15.717
But he said well, I've got this business right in town.

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It's this little restaurant diner, but I can't tell you the name.

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And I said, oh, you mean the nest?

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He said well, I can't tell you that.

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I said have you ever been here at 6,000 people in one diner?

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I'm like I'm pretty sure I know what you're talking about and so you know.

00:34:30.474 --> 00:34:37.300
So we started talking about it and working with the owner and you know it was more good than bad.

00:34:37.300 --> 00:34:46.460
It allowed me to sort of reset myself for a few years and then, truthfully, I missed being around golf and clubs.

00:34:46.510 --> 00:34:48.255
And that's when I went back to Plymouth.

00:34:48.255 --> 00:34:58.873
Which was what interests me at Plymouth was they had just demolished a clubhouse and they were looking for someone with a good building background and renovations and master planning.

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And they said to me.

00:35:00.217 --> 00:35:04.693
They said you know, we have a good golf course and a hot dog stand.

00:35:04.693 --> 00:35:05.677
We're going to build a club.

00:35:05.677 --> 00:35:09.014
We want a real club and a great golf course, and so that intrigued me.

00:35:09.014 --> 00:35:11.818
The problem was half the membership was great.

00:35:11.818 --> 00:35:15.393
They were literally Mayflower descendants, yankees, my kind of people.

00:35:15.393 --> 00:35:31.958
And because the club, however, was so you know reasonably priced, you had people that didn't really understand the methodology of being an owner of a club and you know, and that and it was weird I did a great job, you know, built a nice clubhouse.

00:35:31.958 --> 00:35:35.992
They're actually about to do a master plan and fix some of the things that were done wrong, which is great.

00:35:35.992 --> 00:35:36.512
You know what?

00:35:36.512 --> 00:35:42.512
Almost 20 years later, at this point, every once in a while I'll still talk to a couple of the members from there.

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But when my contract was up, I said thank you.

00:35:46.175 --> 00:35:48.016
And they said what do you mean?

00:35:48.016 --> 00:35:48.351
You don't.

00:35:48.351 --> 00:35:48.994
What do you mean?

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And I said I said I came here to do what you asked me to do.

00:35:51.737 --> 00:35:54.657
My contract's up, you need somebody else.

00:35:54.657 --> 00:35:56.235
I'm not the right guy for you going forward.

00:35:56.235 --> 00:35:58.554
So I've never, you know.

00:35:59.396 --> 00:36:04.059
So you're still recording it looks like, but you know, my chef just gave notice two days ago.

00:36:04.059 --> 00:36:05.635
We hired him a year and a half ago.

00:36:05.635 --> 00:36:06.974
He's done a great job.

00:36:06.974 --> 00:36:11.380
You know, inherited some things, like everybody does, but he's done a great job.

00:36:11.380 --> 00:36:23.335
He's done the hardest work of the job but he's been offered the opportunity to be closer to home, make a little bit more money and you know he's at a point in his career and you know his family's first and I respect that.

00:36:23.335 --> 00:36:26.237
You know that's how I am because I'm the same way.

00:36:26.237 --> 00:36:28.056
You know, when I wasn't happy I made changes.

00:36:28.056 --> 00:36:35.673
Other people I've got friends that have stayed in jobs for five, 10 years longer than they should have, that are miserable and I'm like why, why do you do that to yourself?

00:36:35.673 --> 00:36:38.177
I don't get it, but everybody's different.

00:36:39.971 --> 00:36:48.916
Was there anything you learned from running a diner that helped or you know, I'm trying to, because that's a unique experience.

00:36:48.916 --> 00:36:52.936
I feel like that's a, that's a different animal than just like a normal restaurant or a bar.

00:36:52.936 --> 00:36:55.731
If I got diner is like its own animal, like what.

00:36:55.731 --> 00:37:00.514
Were there any like good learning learning points from that, some good teachable lessons?

00:37:01.530 --> 00:37:03.197
You know, there's always teachable lessons.

00:37:03.197 --> 00:37:06.619
I think that you know it's funny.

00:37:06.619 --> 00:37:14.175
Years ago I started out, you know, went to Johnson Welles' thinking I was going to be a chef and I figured out the first year in that I didn't want to be a chef.

00:37:14.175 --> 00:37:18.257
And I knew, even at, you know, 20 years old, I knew that I wasn't passionate enough.

00:37:18.257 --> 00:37:19.371
Right, I'm never.

00:37:19.371 --> 00:37:27.096
I was never going to care so much about the newest toy, the newest ingredient, traveling to, you know, sri Lanka to figure out how to make this dish the perfect way.

00:37:27.096 --> 00:37:30.039
And I applaud the people that have that passion.

00:37:31.849 --> 00:37:39.452
And you know, and truthfully, when I went back and did the diner what it did is it reminded me that I wasn't, I didn't want to own.

00:37:39.452 --> 00:37:43.476
It was a 46 seat restaurant and it did very well for the size it was.

00:37:43.476 --> 00:37:48.657
But the next step was going to be to acquire one or two other places and my heart wasn't in it.

00:37:48.657 --> 00:37:52.876
You know for what it was going to cost me time and emotionally and maybe money I'd.

00:37:52.876 --> 00:37:56.255
I decided I'd rather go work for someone else and be around golf.

00:37:56.255 --> 00:37:59.612
So it didn't teach me necessarily anything about the business.

00:37:59.612 --> 00:38:02.480
It taught me about myself and that was okay.

00:38:02.480 --> 00:38:05.376
But you know I had four years, my son was in an elementary school.

00:38:05.376 --> 00:38:15.077
I never missed, you know, a presentation on his Dr Seuss paper or a flag day or the Christmas singing chorus thing or any of that.

00:38:15.077 --> 00:38:22.117
It was a half mile around the corner from my restaurant and I could do what I wanted when I wanted, and I didn't have any committees.

00:38:22.418 --> 00:38:33.295
You know talking about the size of carrots in my bowl of soup and you know as I, as you know, I always wanted to have a shirt.

00:38:33.295 --> 00:38:37.277
Right, we had different hats and shirts and my wife would never let me do the one shirt I wanted to do.

00:38:37.277 --> 00:38:39.699
We sold bean and matapois at near the water in New Bedford.

00:38:39.699 --> 00:38:43.175
We did a ton of seafood and my shirt I wanted to do.

00:38:43.175 --> 00:38:44.358
She wouldn't let me do it.

00:38:44.358 --> 00:38:52.155
So I wanted to get a shirt that had, like you know, the diner, on the front right and on the back, said if you don't like our oyster, you should chuck off, and she would never let me do that shirt.

00:38:52.155 --> 00:38:55.056
She would never let me do that shirt to this day.

00:38:56.289 --> 00:38:58.851
So but but yeah, you realize.

00:38:58.851 --> 00:39:05.259
You realize you have to make just one of those shirts and give it to her for Valentine's Day.

00:39:05.259 --> 00:39:07.931
You have to make her a one-off shirt and make honey.

00:39:07.931 --> 00:39:08.755
I got you something.

00:39:09.230 --> 00:39:14.318
After almost 40 years, I think she'd be more surprised that she got a present for Valentine's than at the shirt.

00:39:14.318 --> 00:39:17.036
But okay, you can go with that.

00:39:17.036 --> 00:39:21.561
Yeah, it was, and it also taught me that, you know.

00:39:21.561 --> 00:39:23.257
It also taught me that I couldn't be a chef.

00:39:23.409 --> 00:39:27.398
In the front of the house at the same time I had a one man, one guy, and he sat at the.

00:39:27.398 --> 00:39:33.494
He would sit at the counter and when his mug was half empty he'd start going like this, he'd start tapping his mug.

00:39:33.494 --> 00:39:40.775
And one day I was out there I'd been on there early to open up the place and I went out to get a cup of coffee and he started tapping his mug.

00:39:40.775 --> 00:39:45.934
And I looked right at him and I said, brad, if you keep tapping that mug, you're gonna find out if you can drink it left-handed.

00:39:47.992 --> 00:39:49.317
But you can't do that in a club.

00:39:49.317 --> 00:39:53.960
So you really shouldn't do that at all is the lesson of it.

00:39:53.960 --> 00:40:02.757
But you know, I survived it, he survived it and he, you know he didn't come in for about a week and then he started coming back because his friends were ragging on him that he deserved it.

00:40:02.757 --> 00:40:05.458
So but you can't do that in a club.

00:40:05.458 --> 00:40:07.175
In a club, you just you know you eat it.

00:40:07.175 --> 00:40:13.695
The only thing you can do in a club and you have to be halfway decent to do it is when you play golf with members.

00:40:13.695 --> 00:40:19.456
Every once in a while you can beat up on him, but you even gotta be careful with that, and I'm not halfway decent anymore.

00:40:19.456 --> 00:40:20.853
So that ship has sailed.

00:40:20.853 --> 00:40:24.043
So Ha ha, ha ha.

00:40:26.510 --> 00:40:30.284
This is where I'm gonna end it, all right, ha ha ha.

00:40:30.324 --> 00:40:33.197
All right, and you didn't even have to use the time delay or pause me.

00:40:33.197 --> 00:40:35.556
See that you got barely any F-bombs to edit out.

00:40:35.556 --> 00:40:37.996
I don't think we have any, no.

00:40:38.590 --> 00:40:39.894
I've got my best behavior for you.

00:40:39.894 --> 00:40:57.436
I truly appreciate that from because I will say I have interviewed like a bunch of guests for private club radio so far and I have to say after this one you're definitely the most recent.

00:40:57.436 --> 00:40:58.454
So thank you.

00:40:58.454 --> 00:41:00.072
Most recent.

00:41:00.655 --> 00:41:02.523
Yeah, what's that mean?

00:41:03.391 --> 00:41:04.335
I was making a sarcastic.

00:41:04.335 --> 00:41:09.833
I was trying to like, like, build it up like, oh, after like all my guests so far, you're definitely the most recent.

00:41:10.496 --> 00:41:14.195
Yeah, Sorry, you know, listen I that one flew over me in my bed.

00:41:14.757 --> 00:41:16.896
So Ha ha, ha ha.

00:41:16.896 --> 00:41:19.177
I guess it's funny when it's part of my show.

00:41:19.177 --> 00:41:27.552
So so for Raymore and Flanagan I'm about to end it's like the whole thing and you know I've been with them day and a half, got it's been.

00:41:27.552 --> 00:41:30.572
You know, on behalf of you know, you know it's one.

00:41:30.572 --> 00:41:35.436
Thank you all so much, from being a Raymore and Flanagan customer to also, you know, being here.

00:41:35.436 --> 00:41:46.817
You know I know it's just the beginning of 2024, but you know, looking at events from last year, then even coming up, I have to say you guys are definitely the most recent.

00:41:46.817 --> 00:41:52.635
So thank you, and it's one of those like just the you know, now it's your worst.

00:41:52.969 --> 00:41:55.577
You're telling me furniture salesman got the joke and I didn't.

00:41:55.697 --> 00:41:56.119
No, no, no.

00:41:57.853 --> 00:42:01.735
I gotta go get some regular coffee Wow.

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